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    Default Peer pressure on Surfcasters

    When I read that a guy calls someone out for mugging them, keeping a short fish, killing fish for no reason, etc., etc. I always want to show my gratitude for saying or doing something.
    Peer pressure can go a long way in surf fishing. The more people are saying and doing something about stuff the more these clueless people will learn that what they are doing is not going to be accepted.

    So this thread is posting what you or someone does in "educating" others on proper fishing etiquette and discussion about it.

    Some things that come to mind:
    How to handle fish when releasing them, no kicking
    Keeping a short
    Killing "garbage fish" for the hell of it
    Mugging, fishing to close to some one
    Shining a bright light indiscriminately fishing at night
    Boats to close, indiscriminately plowing through the area you are fishing
    Basically common sense stuff that is not proper etiquette

    Remember, common sense needs to be applied, don't get yourself in trouble.

    Stuff like Jigfreak the other day, nicely explaining not to take his spot while he is releasing a fish.
    A fellow fisherman explaining the do?s and don'ts. Thanks Jigfreak, maybe next time they won't try this again.

    Quote Originally Posted by jigfreak View Post
    Most of the guys I talked to said yesterday was far better. Insane crowds and dillydocks everywhere. The second one guy would unhook a bass 2 others jumped in to fill in his spot. One guy tried to do that to me and I told him I would fillet him if he tried. He ran away like a little girl and moved down the beach. By Saturday it will be dilly city.
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    I think some of it has to do with bad parenting firstly. secondly a general attitude of selfishness in our society today.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    Killing "garbage fish" for the hell of it
    Mugging, fishing to close to some one
    Shining a bright light indiscriminately fishing at night

    The above are 3 of my biggest pet peeves. You come on a beach at night you should have enough sense to turn off your damn headlights. What some of these idiots do is shine their lights on you and directly on the water and then use the lights to see where you are casting. At night it takes a little time to get adjusted to the darkness. After that you can see fine. When guys do this I have yelled at them and they don't seem to care. Sometimes you can't fix stupid

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    I can't stand it when the boats come in close. There is this one place that we go to quite frequently and the boaters think they own it. They come in so close that you could almost walk out and push them away. Why do they have to fish right there? They have the whole ocean, but NOOOOOOOO, they have to act like they are spooning me in bed.

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    That's what sinkers are for give a few warning casts then bounce it off the boat.
    Quote Originally Posted by Pebbles View Post
    I can't stand it when the boats come in close. There is this one place that we go to quite frequently and the boaters think they own it. They come in so close that you could almost walk out and push them away. Why do they have to fish right there? They have the whole ocean, but NOOOOOOOO, they have act like they are spooning me in bed.
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    Pebbles is right...we do fish some areas where we get mugged by boats.....I don't think inlets should be included in that as boats generally have the right of way.....but there are other areas where someone in a boat will see us catching and come up to crowd in on the action. When that hapens, 80% of the time, the issue can be resolved by a simple "Hey Cappy, don't you think you're getting a little close?" Most reasonable Capts will hear, understand, and move off. not looking for a confrontation.....and to me, that's the best way to solve these things, without confrontation....


    Sometimes confrontation is unavoidable and the only thing that seems to work.
    Surfstix, I do understand the frustration, and have been there, in that moment, I definitely have felt the same way.

    However, I don't want to encourage anyone to do that here.....you folks are on your own and responsible for the choices you make....
    Monty this is a good discussion, hopefully you will get some more helpful suggestions.

    Many of us are silent out there, when it's happening, and IMO that's the best time to handle the issue, out there, in real time.
    Thanks to all for your thoughts.

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    I should have posted that is my last resort but I have been in some scuffles with boat captains that just push my WhopMcKraut button and my attitude changes dramatically I tend not to back down to people like that.Maybe it is bred into me or growing up with 3 older brothers IDK but I generally say what's on my mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hookset View Post
    The above are 3 of my biggest pet peeves. You come on a beach at night you should have enough sense to turn off your damn headlights.

    Do you at least stop when you hit a bump? Could be someone doing the nasty or sleeping one off on the beach. Lights from guys that stay up near the dunes shouldn't bother anyone. Just my .02

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    -^^ Haha funny stuff barry if someone is doing the nasty I want to give them there space! I can't speak for hookset but I have seen the same thing too. At lsland beach have had guys roll up at night with the lights blaring and they don't put them off. They leave the truck running and come out and ask "so whats biting?" ***!!!! Whats biting will be me biting them if they don't shut those effing lights from my eyes. They also do this on moco too. There is a few jetties that if you are fishing them they can sit there shine there lights on and try to see if you are catching or not. Then after you are blinded and they see you are not hooked up they drive away. Whats up with that??????

    Don't mean this to criticize what you said- I def agree with you. I also agree with hookset and monty that folks could have a little more courtesy.
    A little goes a long way don't you think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by storminsteve View Post

    Don't mean this to criticize what you said- I def agree with you. I also agree with hookset and monty that folks could have a little more courtesy.
    A little goes a long way don't you think?
    A little more courtesy?
    How about we carry a Billie club on our belts and when these inconsiderate stooges ask whats biting we take out a couple head lights with the club. Better idea than biting them
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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    A little more courtesy?
    How about we carry a Billie club on our belts
    Monty no offense but it seems you may be a bit tense. What about tazers are they ok too?
    Hope it isn't too long before you are fishing again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    AHow about we carry a Billie club on our belts and when these inconsiderate stooges ask whats biting we take out a couple head lights with the club. Better idea than biting them

    Ever see that movie walking tall?
    Sir get your tail lights fixed



    seriously the aggravating muggers at the park are as bad as mosquitoes. There is no way to get rid of them. My .02.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    Mugging, fishing to close to some one
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    Hate it when that happens. There is a mile of open beach and they have to set up right next to you.
    What I do when that happens is say dude you have the whole beach you can catch them down there don't crowd me, surfstix I have been mugged by boats too and dark I'm glad talking works for you but there have been incidents where no amount of talking would fix it. About 10 of us were fishing a poiint in the ocean. one boat came by and repeatedly drifted too close. We were yelling at hin and he gave us the finger. Words did not work. So we started bombing him with sinkers. He moved out 1000 feet giving us the finger all the time. A guy like that will never learn.

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    I think that some of the new folks want to learn. If you take them aside and gently let them know they may be receptive. There are some who wll not listen as has been said. To those you can't reach. It's the same with any situation in life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    Stuff like Jigfreak the other day, nicely explaining not to take his spot while he is releasing a fish.
    A fellow fisherman explaining the do?s and don'ts. Thanks Jigfreak, maybe next time they won't try this again.
    Goog point we should all stand up for ourselves more. Except when the guy is real big like over 6'5" or has a big knife. Then I would be like a silent sheep and only talk about it on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    How to handle fish when releasing them, no kicking
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    Yeah I hate that!! lots o times it is the guy without waders who is fishing with workboots or sneakers on. When its 40 degrees and windy you need waders! A cheap pair will run you 50. Even if you are poor you can afford them. Please dont kick the fish half of them end up dead that way.

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    ^^^^ Have seen some of those guys without waders on the beach. Jeans and sneakers lol. That wil stop real quick once the days get down below 40. Good idea monty you should write a book about surf fishing etiquette. Unfortunately as was mentioned tha ones that need to read it the most will not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monty View Post
    The more people are saying and doing something about stuff the more these clueless people will learn that what they are doing is not going to be accepted.

    So this thread is posting what you or someone does in "educating" others on proper fishing etiquette and discussion about it.

    Basically common sense stuff that is not proper etiquette

    Remember, common sense needs to be applied, don't get yourself in trouble.
    How about the clueless idiots that mention the exact location every time? There is one site out there I call it striper spot burn because there is no moderation at all. You can say you got fish at x street in ortley and they are ok with it.

    This one guy named ********USER posts his location every time he fishes. For the last few times he has been fishing sea bright.
    How clueless do you have to be to understand this is not cool? sea bright has had beach replenishment issues, parking issues and access issues. Sure you can park in the municipal lot or by the police station. You cannot park where we used to park at something fishy or some of the local sb side streets close to the hook. SB may be 2 miles long but what good is it if half of that beach is difficult to get to. As a result there are a handful of beaches in sb you can fish easily. Everyone knows what they are. Dark you can delete this post if not appropriate. What I want to know is how idiotic do you have to be to post "I got fish in sea bright" and not expect to be mugged. I read part of this idiot's response he said when he fishes he likes the company. What a tool. There are so few places holding fish now that giving the county is enough info. You should want to do the rest of the work yourself. New generation, new fishermen, new tool-bags.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jigfreak View Post
    There are so few places holding fish now that giving the county is enough info. You should want to do the rest of the work yourself. New generation, new fishermen, new tool-bags.

    Quote Originally Posted by DarkSkies View Post
    Please note: NO SPOT BURNING. Posts burning spots will be Edited or DELETED.
    Some veteran fishermen have put in years developing and learning about certain spots.Some of these spots can only handle a few guys at a time. We are losing enough access as it is, due to the unfortunate behavior of a few selfish people. No sense in making it worse.

    **For some areas, it would be wiser to say:
    Out Front (Ocean) OR -- Out Back (Bay) -- if you feel too many people will figure out what you are talking about. "Spot burning" also could involve mentioning something specific only to that area. Remember that thousands of people could potentially read these posts. You don't want to be fishing next to ALL of them at the same time.
    1. If you are unclear on this concept, ask yourself:
    If I name this place on the internet, will it be too crowded for me to enjoy tomorrow when people hear I got 30 fish there today?

    2. If the answer is "Yes", then you should probably not be so specific.
    More discussion on this:
    http://stripersandanglers.com/Forum/...ead.php?t=3763



    Kind of ironic that one of the most well-known sites out there is now strictly enforcing a no spot burning policy. Not the one you mentioned jigfreak, another one.
    If you look at some of the language they use for "their" new format it's like they lifted some of it from the monthly fishing reports format here.
    Monty my final offer if you want to break some headlights of beach muggers I will kick in $70. Just let dark or one of us film it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jigfreak View Post
    How about the clueless idiots that mention the exact location every time? There is one site out there I call it striper spot burn because there is no moderation at all. You can say you got fish at x street in ortley and they are ok with it.
    I like reading fishing reports, but information on locations never is a good thing. It is infuriating. Definitely bad fishing etiquette. This guy computer**** from that site is an absolute moron. It's like he is blatantly naming locations to annoy others. That is one fishing site that with the blatant spot burning does more harm than good.
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